How do poor communication skills manifest in other ways? I say, blinkers.

If you know me, you know that a pet peeve of mine is people not using turn signals when driving. I notice it frequently. Likely 1 in 2 or at best 1 in 3 don’t signal to alert others as to their intentions to turn, change lanes or otherwise move in a fashion other than the straight and narrow.

I would guess that these men, women and teens also are poor communicators in other facets of their lives. They believe that as long as they know where they are going (or think they do) nothing else matters. Everyone else will just figure it out or deal with it. Others matter far less to them than their desire to turn or change lanes at that time. Besides, they may guess, who cares. They rationalize that they didn’t impact anyone other than themselves. Nice. Those mottos will come in handy when you have your first spat with your partner, argument with your boss or try to show you were the good guy/gal in divorce court. Ok, so I’m taking it to extremes. I really hate failures to blink. It’s rude, not at all “team oriented”, and unprofessional- not to mention unsafe and illegal. I hope you picked up the transference of traits from the asphalt to the workplace in that last sentence. Oh, I forgot egotistical.

So, dear fellow drivers, use that signal that came standard on your car, truck, SUV, moped, etc…. show us that you want to be better communicators because you know it will have a positive impact on your life otherwise. And, hey, you may make us all a little safer out there. Bonus.